Picture yourself as a young, Maasai girl. Now that you’ve done that, follow these steps to fulfilling all of your sexual needs. 1. Attend the warrior dances when you are young (even starting from age 6) and start scouting out which warriors you fancy. Spend time with them, talk to them, get to know them. [...]
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There are two main types of controlling behavior in a marriage relationship. There is aggressive control, which is outward and overt and then there is passive control which is more covert and hidden. Let’s tackle the aggressive, active control first. What are the typical ways someone can actively try to control one’s spouse? It can [...]
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In Christian homes when the husband does not assume his Spiritual Leader role a vacuum forms and often the wife is forced into being the leader. This is uncomfortable for the wife since God did not give her that responsibility. It can create a great deal of resentment in both the wife and also the [...]
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Letâs face it. Usually one spouse is naturally neater than the other. While it seems like a small thing, this can turn into a much larger issue over time when it keeps adding up. Resentment can increase over repeated requests to keep the house neat. Bills can fall through the cracks. Precious items can get [...]
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What kind of communication do you and your spouse practice? How would you rate it on a scale of one to ten? Do you feel completely understood by your spouse? Does your spouse feel completely understood by you? When we feel understood, we feel loved? Does your spouse feel loved by you? In our Marriage [...]
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In our Marriage Counseling Practice clients tell us that their marriages are very stressed. We have discovered a number of common threads that lead to this stress. Here are a few: Lack of time. Too many commitments often caused by the inability to say no to a request. Lack of money. With the economy causing [...]
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With almost 30 years of Marriage Counseling experience we have discovered that it is critical to keep your marriage business private. This is true when things are going well and also when things are not going so well. It is particularly important if your marriage or family is in crisis. This does not mean that [...]
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We read about it all the time. It is on the evening news and tabloids. Famous people like Tiger Woods and Governor Mark Sanford, and not so famous people like your next door neighbor. Sometimes it seems like there is an epidemic of infidelity similar to the swine flu. It is ruining lives and marriages. [...]
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Divorce is never a pleasant experience. The emotions involved before, during and after divorce can be very painful, confusing, complex and sometimes frightening. However, learning from how others coped with the trauma may help one in picking up the threads and moving on in life… Divorce is never a pleasant experience. The emotions involved before, [...]
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